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I mentioned during this discussion that at an event we were at (non-LGBT related), that I felt great when one of his friends introduced me as his partner and not his friend after he had just mentioned I was 'his friend’. I shared my feelings on how I felt with his word choices and how it always played out the same way with basically everyone. He understood my feelings and viewpoint but also shared his own. And that his mindset is still sometimes shifted towards the older times where it was a risk to be open about your sexuality and that it was just so common for him to always keep it a secret unless it was asked or it was a 'safe’ place to be open. The other aspect of it is his work/career. Given the demographic he deals with for his work, it is very easy for him to lose work because of his sexuality, along with his choice in men (being younger). We both shared our feelings and both understood each others view points on the situation and agreed to compromise. He is more open about us now when it wont affect his work/career.
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And I understand that when things do involve his work that it will happen from time to time that I am just 'his friend’. We also both understand that due to where we live, any real overly public displays of affection will come with a lot more than just a stare or two. While we are not against doing things in public, we both understand that it’s probably best to just not be overboard with it.